Name the actual options
Separate concrete choices from vague pressure. “Accept now, ask for more time, or decline” is easier to reason about than “What should I do?”
A decision helper that does not pretend to know your life better than you.
Tell Cappy the options, what matters, and what feels uncertain. It can organize the tradeoffs, ask for one genuinely important missing detail, and help you choose a small reversible next move.
Help me choose →A practical way to think through a decision
Choose your criteria
List the few things that really matter: time, money, energy, relationships, learning, risk, or reversibility.
Separate facts from guesses
Mark what you know, what you assume, and what one question could clarify. Uncertainty should stay visible.
Prefer a reversible experiment
When possible, test the choice cheaply before making a permanent commitment.
Prompts that work well
- “Compare these two options using cost, stress, and long-term upside.”
- “What important question am I avoiding in this decision?”
- “Help me choose without optimizing every detail.”
- “Give me the smallest reversible test for this idea.”